#1 refined s. [polished, svelte, urbane] showing a high degree of refinement and the assurance that comes from wide social experience; "his polished manner"; "maintained an urbane tone in his letters". wn
#2 refined s. [elegant, graceful] suggesting taste, ease, and wealth. wn
#3 refined s. [neat, tasteful] free from what is tawdry or unbecoming; "a neat style"; "a neat set of rules"; "she hated to have her neat plans upset". wn
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